Secret Survival Guide – to Living Abroad It’s life …. but not as you knew it

Secret Survival Guide    –   To Living Abroad

 It’s life …. but not as you knew it

 

If you want everything to remain the same, moving abroad is not for you.

Your time abroad is going to change you: irrevocably. You willRoad Trip emerge a different person, shaped by the experiences awaiting you. It’s a scary thought!

Ultimately, this will be wonderful; you’ll ‘grow’ more than you can imagine. However, you’ll have times when you’ll feel as if your former identity has vanished, and that’s a very disturbing feeling. It’s a transition that some find more difficult than others.

DSC_0119Of course, there will be some ‘superficial’ things you’ll miss, but they’ll be there on your return. In fact, you’ll only appreciate the delights of home more for having been away: a revelation you may not truly appreciate until your first trip back after long absence.

As for beloved foodstuffs – like marmite, gravy granules or peanut butter – put them in your suitcase if you really can’t live without them. Mine is always full of M&S Empress Grey Tea and British cheese.  Favourite TV programmes can be purchased as DVD box sets and online radio is a joy.

What lies beyond?Far more difficult will be ‘giving up’ close contact with friends and family and the physical pleasure of get-togethers. Skype and email are worth their weight in gold; if your parents aren’t yet converts and you want to pursue this avenue with them, it’s down to you to set things up at their end and make all as simple as possible.

Cake making If you’re giving up your job to accompany your spouse, this can be especially hard. Of course, you can view this as an opportunity to pursue any secret ambitions (beyond baking cakes and keeping the floor clean) since you’ll probably haveWrite a Book more time on your hands.

Go wild! Think about what you’d like to do: design clothes; write a book; start your own online enterprise; get fit; take art classes; join a choir or amateur dramatics group; or create a blog.

Have some business cards made up stating your name and contact details (Vista print offer this online); they’ll be useful to offer new friends. Perhaps add details of your existing or desired profession; you never know when contacts will present themselves.

Some career coaching could help you focus on new opportunities Exploring the unknown (www.netexpat.com).

Way up what you’re relinquishing (temporarily in most cases) against what will be gained and remember that we rarely regret our actions – only those paths never taken.

 

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